When it comes to romance, guys get a bad rap. The conventional wisdom is that they are an unromantic bunch, who would rather chug a beer in front of the TV than sip champagne by candlelight. But men can be just as romantic as women, though they often express it in different ways.
But here are a couple of things men find sexy.
Compliments.
The quickest path to a man's heart is through his ego. One the most romantic things in the world is for you to be in awe of your man's skills -- whether it's his ability to make people laugh, perform at sports, fix things, or retrieve and display esoteric knowledge. Let him know that you are like that.
Dark chocolate.
"Milk chocolate is for kids. Dark chocolate is for lovers," says Weinstein, who explains that dark chocolate has a higher percentage of cocoa, which means it has more phenyl ethylamine, a chemical that mimics the feeling you have when you're in love. The nice thing about dark chocolate is that he reacts unconsciously to it. He starts feeling happy and all in love without knowing why.
You, in his clothes.
Come to the dinner table wearing nothing but his button-down dress shirt. You wish you could see the inside of that man's heart right now. You just can't beat that.
Funny movies.
Shared values or goals make a relationship work . But a shared sense of humor is something you don't want to miss. If you like Chris Rock and your date doesn't, then you might have some tension on the sofa. When you can laugh together, then you can really feel the connection been made.
Surprise intimacy.
Whether it's an unexpected kiss or an afternoon jaunt to the bedroom, men swoon when women take the initiated for example to initiate sex at odd times. We also like beaches, bed-and-breakfasts, and when you squeeze our thigh under the table during dinner at a restaurant. Oh, and baths. We like bubble baths too.
Did I say We? :-)
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