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Posted by J Kel |
This article was submitted by Heine Nzumafo
continued from.... Romeo's First Time - PART I
Otherwise, the dreams were great, especially after an informative read. He put everything to visual and subconscious practice or at least he tried to. He learnt that foreplay was crucial. Start slow, do a lot of kissing, focus on erogenous zones, the neck, back, breast, thighs, etc. He knew he enjoyed doing it. He also took time massaging and caressing. He learnt the difference between the two and figured it was best to start with a massage to get the entire body relaxed before progressing to erotic caresses. He had everything figured out, how long the massage had to last before progressing to the next stage. It was always great because he was content at being a great lover and it always ended up great. He had read that the clitoris and G-spot are very tender and can easily be bruised if not handles tenderly; that the more aroused a woman, the more pleasure she would get from these areas and the less likely she was to feel pain in the process. So he knew he needed patience. He had set time targets - to take a good thirty minutes before coming close to the clitoral area for example.
Years went by, and Romeo still found no reason to rush into sex. While his friends prided themselves in their indiscretions he just wondered why they cared so much about having sex but not making love. His good friend Benvolio, recounted his first oral sex experience to his eager group of friends, Romeo included. He was so happy and proud to tell how good it was. Imagine a boy of 16 amongst his friends. Romeo wasn’t impressed. He asked if he returned the favor. What Benvolio proceeded to say depicts what many men think about both sex and women, need I say more? Even then Romeo believed it wasn’t fair to expect what you were not willing to give. He knew it was selfish and disrespectful to say and think the things his friend said. But who was he in the eyes of his peers to comment, when he wasn’t even having sex? That didn’t stop him from voicing his opinion, though worthless to them. But you can envisage what his approach to sex was.
Then it happened, just when he wasn’t expecting it to happen. One thing just led to another, and by the time he knew it all clothes were off. “This is it!” He told himself, trying not to panic; He tried to conceal his anxiety and bubbling desires. He felt close to exploding in his third leg, but knew the exploding part had to happen with some movement, so that had to wait. She didn’t know it was his firs time. She didn’t ask and he hoped she didn’t, because he could not afford to lie about it. Few women know when a man is having sex for the first time. Usually, the boys’ egos may not let them divulge the truth. Romeo was more interested in making a good impression and then shocking her with the revelation that it was his first time, then feeling good about her reaction. That didn’t go as planned. Actually nothing did.
He knew what he had read; he knew how her body was to respond, every inch of it. He understood the concept of pace, and control but little did he realize how HARD it was to accomplish the “control” part of his well scripted approach. He failed miserably. The foreplay was good. He could tell she enjoyed it. Her nipples were hard like a rock, her breasts firm and full, her breathing steadily increased as her heartbeat raced with every thump. He liked that, it was just like the books had explained. He kissed and caressed and enjoyed her curves, making his way down slowly to her midsection. Her response encouraged him. His mind was working at 100 miles an hour, observing, reflecting, keeping track of time and restraining him self from sliding inside her. The good thing was he knew where his brother kept the condoms; he just had never worn one. When the time for that came, he went through two before realizing there was a right way to do it. She was more knowledgeable then and saved him from his embarrassment. She did so in an exciting way. She put it on for him. He liked her touch and felt something flowing. He knew it was seminal fluid. He must be close he thought.
Continue to.... Romeo's First Time - PART III
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