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Posted by J Kel |
This article was submitted by Heine Nzumafo
Not very many women understand themselves to the extent that they can communicate with their mates to improve the quality of pleasure they receive. Many that do are timid, shy or too passive to say what they like or want. Besides few men encourage feedback and input. They restrict themselves by doing the same things the same way even though all women are not the same. It is also very important for men to know the kind of woman they are dealing with to better understand the tempo, pace, intensity to use.
Basically there are two kinds of women, those that need a lot of foreplay and those that need little or no foreplay. Those that require a lot of foreplay can be subdivided into two groups – those that achieve multiple orgasms and those that do not achieve multiple orgasms. Because sex is mostly mental, with time, patience and effort a woman can fall under all three categories. In fact, that should be the goal because different circumstances demand different responses.
Women that do not like foreplay are impatient and usually very easily turned on. They are usually very visual and aural. Fortunately or unfortunately, they get turned off as quickly as they get turned on. Over time their arousal increases very rapidly and then drops immediately after they achieve orgasm. During sex, they like it hard and fast. They easily get frustrated if the pace slows down. After orgasms, they get too sensitive and even irritable. Most would barely want to be touched after that. In many ways, their responses are similar to that of most men. Most men peak quickly and instantly and then need a good 15 minutes to get going again. Others, the one-minute men, pass out to the discontent of their women. Well, my point is, there are one-minute women too!
Then there are those that require a lot of foreplay. These women need a lot of romancing and physical arousal before getting mentally aroused. It takes a lot longer for them to achieve orgasm and a lot longer to lose their arousal. Many are able to have multiple orgasms. This is because their pleasure peaks and drops multiple times but never low enough for them to leave the state of intense arousal. If neither she nor her partner understands this they may end the session prematurely. During sex many can tolerate a slower more rhythmic pace, in fact, many like a pace that gathers intensity over time, otherwise it becomes more painful than pleasurable. Usually, in cases where multiple orgasms are achieved, the intensity of the orgasms increases as the number increases. So ladies, if you think the first was powerful, wait till you get the next and the next and the next. Once the first is attained successive orgasms come a lot more quickly too. Depending on the woman and her level of sexuality, intervals could be five minutes or less. By orgasm number four it could become one drawn out orgasm that may last up to 2 minutes. After that, passing out takes effect!
However, many women are either not physically capable or mentally equipped to reach such heights even though they peek slowly and have long and intense orgasms. One usually suffices, after which they slowly get back to minimal arousal. These women are usually more sensitive after their orgasms than women who get more excited after their first orgasms and achieve multiple orgasms.
continue to ...... Three Categories of Women With Respect To Sex - PART II
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